Would it be weird to go back to his job and see him or is that stalkerish?

ok first of all stalkerish would be going back the next night... however if you wait several nights cough cough the following weekend that would be far from it. if youre going to do this you need something crafty. ive been in this situation many times before and at this point you need to approach him and say something along the lines of �I met this attractive bartender last weekend and I can�t seem to remember his name, could you maybe help me?" Then simply give him a wink (not over the top, just cute) or perhaps a smile if you feel more comfortable. Hunny he will be so taken back by your confidence theres no way you wont get his #!